Thursday, June 5, 2014

暗示

爱上一个人是什么感觉?想每天见到他?喜欢他的声音? 还是单纯喜欢他在你身边?
到底我是爱上了你还是只是一时的错觉,只想找个人陪。
如果我是真的爱上了你我应该如何?你喜欢我吗?还是我一厢情愿?
有太多太多的问号,让我都不知我该怎么办。
暗示了你,但你收到这暗示吗?感受到我对你的那一份爱吗?
如果要用一首歌来表达我想告诉你的东西应该就是(暗示)。

“全世界只有你不懂我爱你,我给的不只是朋友而已。
   我该如何让你知道我爱你,连星星都知道我爱你。“

我爱你,你爱我吗?
                                                                                             
                                                                                                                    一个等待你爱他的人

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

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爱情到底是什么?
为何有那么多人为了它伤痕累累?
失恋又到底是什么感觉?
              一个不懂爱情的人

Friday, March 21, 2014

抉择

在爱情的世界里不会有谁对谁错。是你太坚强还是他太懦弱。可能他不是你世界的唯一,但对他来说你却是他的唯一。
你选择了学业放弃了爱情。为了不让你困扰他只好说一句“读书好,应该趁年青读书.“
当他开始追求你时,已经料到会有这么一天,但他却死心眼的要在你身边守护着你。
当你做出了这个决定,一切以到了尾声。是时候落幕了。。。

                                                                - 替一个傻子写

Monday, March 3, 2014

迷惘的我

上星期开始在面子书卖美容产品。已经接近一个礼拜了却好像没什么反应。是我太心急吗?
这次我放了好多的心思去做,成绩却不理想总让我感到一丝的郁闷。
只能在家郁闷,什么也不能做让我觉得我好没用。
天啊,教教我到底能做些什么!

                                                                                                                 -执着      

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

近况

不知不觉我也当了七个月多的兵了。自从从BMT出来后就去了当 security trouper (ST)。 算还蛮轻松的。就像一份朝九晚五的工作,也没什么好烦。

不知道是太无聊了,每天闲着没事干就会想想当完兵了该做什么。该继续读书呢还是出来工作一阵子。如果读书应该读什么课程或者该做什么工呢。想到这些问题就感到厌烦。

有些人嘛就爱说 "别急,慢慢来。有的是时间。"

可你们都知道吗,时间只会慢慢流失而不会停下来等你做好了决定才继续走。

虽然是这么的说,我还是比较喜欢顺其自然。

                                                                                                                            -和时间在赛跑

Monday, August 12, 2013

这是写给自己的一封信。

近这几个礼拜我的心情一直都很差。当兵因该会是我人生中的阴影。一向来的我都爱无拘无束的生活,可当兵却是相反。

现在的我只能祈求时间过得快一些,让我赶紧的当完兵做我想做的事。

忍是我现在唯一能做的事。忍!

                                                                                                一个不爱当兵的小孩 启

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Study finds psychopaths have distinct brain structure


LONDON (Reuters) - Scientists who scanned the brains of men convicted of murder, rape and violent assaults have found the strongest evidence yet that psychopaths have structural abnormalities in their brains.
The researchers, based at King's College London's Institute of Psychiatry, said the differences in psychopaths' brains mark them out even from other violent criminals with anti-social personality disorders (ASPD), and from healthy non-offenders.
Nigel Blackwood, who led the study, said the ability to use brain scans to identify and diagnose this sub-group of violent criminals has important implications for treatment.
The study showed that psychopaths, who are characterised by a lack of empathy, had less grey matter in the areas of the brain important for understanding other peoples' emotions.
While cognitive and behavourial treatments may benefit people with anti-social personality disorders, the same approach may not work for psychopaths with brain damage, Blackwood said.
"To get a clear idea of which treatments are working, you've got to clearly define what people are like going into the treatment programmes," he said in a telephone interview.
Essi Viding a professor in the psychology and language sciences department of University College London, who was not involved in Blackwood's study, said it provided "weighty new evidence" about the importance of distinguishing psychopathic from non-psychopathic people rather than grouping them together.
The findings also have implications for the justice system, because linking psychopathy to brain function raises the prospect of arguing a defence of insanity.
Interest in what goes on inside the heads of violent criminals has been sharpened by the trial of Anders Behring Breivik, the Norwegian who massacred 77 people last July.
Two court-appointed psychiatric teams who examined Breivik came to opposite conclusions about his mental health. The killer himself has railed being called insane.
LESS GREY MATTER IN BRAIN'S "SOCIAL" AREAS
Blackwood's team used magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) to scan the brains of 44 violent adult male offenders in Britain who had already been diagnosed with anti-social personality disorders.
The crimes they had committed included murder, rape, attempted murder and grievous bodily harm.
Of the 44 men scanned, 17 met the diagnosis for ASPD plus psychopathy and 27 did not. The researchers also scanned the brains of 22 healthy non-offenders.
The results showed that the psychopaths' brains had significantly less grey matter in the anterior rostral prefrontal cortex and temporal poles than the brains of the non-psychopathic offenders and non-offenders.
These areas of the brain are important for understanding other people's emotions and intentions, and are activated when people think about moral behaviour, the researchers said.
Damage to these areas is linked with a lack of empathy, a poor response to fear and distress and a lack of self-conscious emotions such as guilt or embarrassment.
Lindsay Thomson, a professor of forensic psychiatry at the University of Edinburgh who was not involved in this study, said Blackwood's findings add to evidence that psychopathy is a distinct neurodevelopmental brain disorder.
Research shows that most violent crimes are committed by a small group of persistent male offenders with ASPD.
In England and Wales, for example, around half of male prisoners meet diagnostic criteria for ASPD. A major review of studies covering 23,000 prisoners from 62 countries conducted in 2002 found that 47 percent had anti-social personality disorder.
Such people typically react in an aggressive way to frustration or perceived threats, but most are not psychopaths, the researchers wrote in a summary of their study, which was published in the Archives of General Psychiatry journal.
There are clear behaviour differences among people with ASPD depending on whether they also have psychopathy. Their patterns of offending are different, suggesting the need for a separate approach to treatment.
"We describe those without psychopathy as 'hot-headed' and those with psychopathy as 'cold-hearted'," Blackwood explained.
"The 'cold-hearted' psychopathic group begin offending earlier, engage in a broader range and greater density of offending behaviours, and respond less well to treatment programmes in adulthood compared to the 'hot-headed' group."
(Reporting by Kate Kelland; Editing by Rosalind Russell)